Becky joined the VFW Auxiliary in 1997 under the eligibility of her husband Ronald Oxley, who served from 1966-1970in the U.S. Navy. She met her husband at the VFW Post 3543 in Tumbling Shoals. She is proud to know and interact with veterans. Initially, she helped with the Honor Guard and Color Guard, as well as mowed the VFW Post property.

She has since served in many capacities on the Auxiliary, District, and Department levels.

She received the Circle of Excellence at the National Convention in 2017 at the completion of her tenure as Department of Arkansas President. She also served as National Aide de Camp.

She has served as a Department Program Chairman 9 times! She also served as the 2019-2020 Southern Conference Membership Coach.

She is very proud of her children Cheryl, Phillip, and Candace and her grandchildren Benjamin and Brodie.

Her professional background is in Business and Accounting.

She loves her family, friends, and veterans. She enjoys mowing, driving, traveling, old movies, watching her grandsons' activities, sports, karaoke, and dancing.